A funny man once said, “College love isn’t real love. Both of you are just hormonal.”
Truth? Perhaps. But that statement only begs a plethora of questions. For those who are in relationships, “Is this relationship worth it?” And for the single Pringles, “Why should I dive into Bo dance in the name of a relationship?”
Well, as the certified lover girl I am, I’d be glad to answer all of your questions. And before you ask what my qualifications are, know that I have none; I’m just a sucker for love. For that singular reason, this piece may be biased. But trust me, there’s more to college love than just hormones. Walk with me.
What makes college relationships worth it?
This one is simple: Love.
It might not seem like much, but in a place where academic danger meets mental torture, you’re going to need a shoulder to lean on. Of course, we all have our “guys,” but there are things your partner can do that your guys may not want, or be able to. Don’t believe me? I’ll show you:
Midnight walks
You must have seen them—the lovebirds that wake at sunset and parade the streets of College with smiles on their faces and hands held. Now, don’t cringe, but those walks make the relationship even sweeter. Just imagine it: You’re going through something, and you have someone you can call on at any time (preferably at midnight) to listen to your ranting while frolicking.
Yes, your feet might hurt, and you might not have a place to sit down and process your conversation properly, but hey, it’s all part of the experience. And I can bet you, your guys won’t want to endure all of that for you.
Free Chijioke spag
You didn’t think I’d talk about love without mentioning food, did you? And what better food than the mark of relationships and talking stages, bagged in that iconic white nylon that holds significant meaning within the walls of the College of Medicine.
Since time immemorial, this particular brand has held its place in our hearts—hate it, love it, you really don’t have a choice. Plus, it can serve as a perfect snack for your midnight walks. I mean who wouldn’t love that?
Money
You didn’t hear it here, but healthy college relationships can save you some financial trouble. No, I’m not saying you should loot your partner, and I’m not saying it should be transactional either. You’re in a relationship, not running a business.
The best part about this benefit is that you don’t have to ask. In good college relationships where both parties feel seen, they’d notice if something was wrong with the other. And, of course, you wouldn’t want the love of your life to suffer.
Just don’t give anybody your school fees, though.
Improved mental health
This can’t be overstressed. Who else would listen to you cry about the struggles of pharmacology while rubbing your head and reminding you that you have the powers? Your partner of course.
As we all know, school is tough, and medical school can be hell, but with a relationship, at least you’d have someone to burn with you. And with a hug here and a forehead kiss there, your mental health can go from zero to one hundred in a few seconds. Try it and see.
So, is pursuing a relationship in college worth it?
In simple terms, yes it is.
Sure, you may fight and sure you might get your heart broken, but if it’s healthy, you’d always have good memories to look back on. And who knows? If all goes well, you might end up getting married after college. And everyone knows college sweethearts make the best married couples.